What Truly Matters

Thursday, July 24, 2014


For me, those moments and those someones are all that matter.

And sometimes I'm afraid I'm missing it all.

What a whirlwind it's been, you guys!

I've been trying my best to keep up with everything. Starting my own biz, turning my garage into that business' office, the day-to-day grind of kids and house and pets and work...

This poor, neglected blog...

I had a thought this morning as I stared into my children's faces, sleep-eyed, mussed up hair, smeared syrup all over their tiny fingers from the waffles I made them... this is my "nameless" moment. This is my beautiful now -- full of smiles and connected hearts and the things that truly matter.

I hope I can pause the time in a way that makes me sit still in these moments for a while. Appreciate what I have been given -- as I blast full-steam ahead into my personal goals and dreams.

Happy 4th of July!

Friday, July 4, 2014

Hope it's as blissful as a backyard picnic.
Lace Bodysuit - Hipster G. Skirt -H&M (similar), Heeled Sandals - Zara, Blanket - Modcloth

Check out my feature on Hipster G. about styling underwear with outer wear and the Sechoir video featuring this outfit here!

Gluten Free Banana Bread Muffins

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

I have a (super delicious) banana bread recipe that is a family (and friend!) favorite and in serious rotation in my house. I've made it so many times that I've memorized the ingredients and can practically make it with my eyes closed. If you haven't tried it - go here immediately and do so.


Recently I did a week long cleanse. No sugar, no alcohol, no carbs, no processed junk - just lean protein and vegetables. Let me tell you it was not easy, but it was one of the smartest things I've ever done. Once you get your body into a squeaky clean state, you can slowly add back foods, one-by-one, to see which are good for your body, and which are not. (More on that later.)


What I also realized is that while I'm all about splurging from time to time and love to bake, I needed a healthier, lighter version of my traditional banana bread. I found this recipe here (love & light to you, Jacqui) and modified it until it worked for me. I'm pretty sure I've perfected it. My babies loved them and I don't think they even noticed the difference other than the omission of their beloved chocolate chips.

Ingredients:
4 ripe bananas
2 eggs
1 cup coconut sugar
1/2 cup melted butter
1 tsp vanilla
3/4 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp baking powder
1 1/2 cups gluten-free flour

To make this vegan, substitute apple sauce for eggs and Smart Balance or any other butter substitute in place of butter.

Bake at 350 for 12-15 min. 
Yields about 48 mini muffins - two tins of 24. Enjoy!

Red Balloons for Ryan

Monday, May 26, 2014


Blogging is funny. It's a strange and wonderful world we live in where the power and immediacy of social media can touch so many, so quickly. I've made some "blogging buddies" over the years. Some I even consider to be real friends, even though I've never actually met them in person. Which is strange if you think about it. But it's how I feel none-the-less. What is a friend anyway? Someone you connect with on a regular basis, someone who lifts your spirits, inspires your life, gives you recipes and outfit advice. Man, I feel honored that some of you even think of me that way... heading over to this little blog of mine that's been so neglected lately. (Sorry about that.)

With so little time, I've been getting my daily dose of social media "friendship" on instagram lately. Keeping up with all my favorite bloggers in one quick instant - what they're doing, (what they're wearing, baking, etc...) and recently something made my heart stop and hurt so hard that I can't stop weeping about it. And now I realize that the connection you feel to these cyber buddies also means you can feel their pain along with the joy... in one quick instant.

Jacqui from Baby Boy Bakery recently lost her three year old son, Ryan in a tragic accident. The last picture of him on her instagram feed was a shot of him running happily through Disneyland - on the last day he was alive. As I type I can't stop the tears from flowing and I can feel, so clearly the sharp pain of fear only a mother can experience. As I simultaneously try to listen out for my own kids on the deck, clean up the kitchen and do a million and one other things, I realize just how fleeting and fragile this life, this moment in time is.

I'm baking the muffins you posted on your blog, Jacqui - the last happy recipe while Ryan was with you. The first time I've ever tried baking with gluten-free flour... and they're not quite turning out the way I planned. Just the way life goes. My heart and thoughts and tears are with you and your family. Keep going, keep blogging, keep sharing your story along with us. If prayers and energy are real (and I believe they are) then you have an army of love surrounding you right now. Sending peace to you and red balloons for Ryan.

A Life That's Good

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

I'm a huge fan of the show Nashville and these two sweet and talented sisters are awe inspiring. This song slays me. It's exactly how I feel.



Sitting here tonight, by the fire light
It reminds me I already have more than I should.
I don't need fame, no one to know my name.
At the end of the day, Lord I pray
I have a life that's good.

Two arms around me
Heaven to ground me
and a family that always calls me home.
Four wheels to get there.
Enough love to share and a
sweet, sweet, sweet song.
At the end of the day, Lord I pray
I have a life that's good.

Sometimes I'm hard on me,
when dreams don't come easy
I wanna look back and say I did all that I could.
At the end of the day, Lord I pray
I have a life that's good.

Two arms around me
Heaven to ground me
and a family that always calls me home.
Four wheels to get there.
Enough love to share and a
sweet, sweet, sweet song.
At the end of the day, Lord I pray
I have a life that's good.

At the end of the day, Lord I pray
I have a life that's good.

#CalypsoCares

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

One of my favorite brands,  Calypso St. Barth is currently hosting #CalypsoCares - a clothing donation effort in support of Clothes4Souls. Simply bring in a gently used dress, skirt or shirt into a Calypso boutique and receive 20% off your clothing purchase. A perfect excuse to spring clean!


I was pulling some beautiful frocks from them recently for an upcoming Séchoir shoot and donated some goodies on the way! How cute is this tiny polaroid they snapped?


Stay tuned for a very special video on Séchoir featuring Calypso St. Barth and the incredibly gifted singer/songwriter Zee Avi.

Mellow Yellow - What I Wore To A Dinner Party

Thursday, May 1, 2014





If you follow me on instagram, you may have seen this outfit already. I wore it to a dinner party where we were going to eat outside, so we knew it could get a bit chilly. It's a funny because it's currently sweltering in LA. No way would I be wearing this heavy coat right now, but it was perfect for that night. A statement piece and pop of color always does the trick over my go-to basic colors of black, white and grey.

How much do we love Stella's pajama pants under a dress, under a cape?

White Denim Leggings - Express
Boots - Zara - similar
Tunic - Calypso (old)
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